HARI OM ,
It is true that ancestors’ Debts/Pitra Dosh do not let us live in peace, which makes our life full of struggles. I will refer to this debt – as Pitra Dosh in the rest of the blog .
Pitra dosh causes all kinds of problem to the person whose reasons are very hard for one to understand.
We keep asking ourselves “Why are these problems coming to me only”, a major reason for this could be Rin Dosh which is very hard to get rid of despite all sorts of remedies.
This blog will deal with some of the problems that the rin dosh causes and their remedies. For instance, why are someone’s children suffering so much (santaan-dosh)? Why do some men never have good luck with women (stri-dosh)?Why do some women have bad luck with men (purush-dosh)? Why are some people unable to have any children(vansh-dosh)?, And many more.
If your birth-chart has PitraDosh then you have to do remedies for years to get rid of your problems.Some of the Genaral These remedies are mentioned below.More accurate/ specific can be told by studying your charts.
Pitra dosh has different kinds of effects on different people,some of them are :
a. One may not be able to extend his family to the next generation;family starts getting smaller.
b. Some families always keep fighting amongst themselvesand they’re unable to stop their quarrels
c. One’s things keep getting sold off for lack of money
d. One keeps failing in business/his work
e. One is unable to get married
f. Wealth will come in, but not stay in the family
g. Plants and Pets don’t flourish in such homes
h. Social status of the family decreases
i. Home seems lonely.
j. Some part of the house never get fully constructed or some part of the house start breaking away.Selan / dampness , Spider webs , keep forming frequently , Termite problem comes up unknowingly and spoils lots .
k. Diseases in such families never go away, there’s always some kind of illness present
l. Head of the family keeps getting ill; or he/she may have some grave ill , and have to go through tensions always.
m. Paint of the home starts withering away. and then breakages appear in the walls. Water leakage’s , taps always dropping some water , leakage’s.
n. You enter the house of such families, you see/face dirty water
o. Guests coming in the house don’t leave in a satisfied manner
p. Women of the house go through abortions , Various other problems
q. Despite having all the materialistic things, the members of thefamily go though problems
r. Children go through a lot of problems in business and in their jobs
s. There are increased disagreements between brothers and sisters (siblings)
t. There are more quarrels between husband and wife
u. Wife and her in-laws or the husband and his in-laws don’t see eye to eye with each other; but as these people start living away from each other, then there’s more love between them.
v. Families have issues with their stomach, blood pressure or blood related problems, whitening of hair before time
w. Children in such families don’t get good education despite their efforts
Every year there are certain days (16DAYS )which are specially meant for remembering our ancestors, these are called ‘Shraadh Paksh’belonging to the “Pitra Paksh”. These days come about in the month of “Ashwiin” on the first day of “Amavasya” as per the Hindu calendar. During these times, one keeps a fast and does other prayers and worshipping for ancestors.
HOW TO DO PITRADOSH PUJA :—-
During the worship, it’s very essential to be humble. It’s best if all members of the family take part in it. If it’s not logistically possible, then every member of the family should start the prayer at the same time.
Doing this kind of prayer
ensures at least one big
problem, which had been
stuck for a long time to be
resolved after the prayers are
done (within a year).
ONLY YOUHAVE TO BE TRUTH FULL TO YOURSELF AND DO PUJA AND REMEDIES WITH COMPLETE SHIDAT AND FAITH.
You need to meditate and pray to your ‘Isht” ,Remember your Guru ,( SACHA GURU CAN GUIDE AND TAKE YOU OUT FROM LOT OF BIG PROBLEMS ALSO ,PATIENCE AND FAITH IS NEEDED ) , and your ancestors. Do “Shanty Path” and “Pitra-Gayatri” mantra.
Sit peacefully, and connect with your ancestors through meditation. Offer your ancestors some water black till , ask them for forgiveness, and do some (anonymous) donation for sure.
Donation of food, apart for the donation to a temple and priest, take out 5 sections of food for: a dog, a cow, and a crow;agni , ants , also donate something for the physically challenged people.
If you’re continuously facing failures and problems and you feel tired , Ask Sorry from God and Guru ( only very lucky people have True Guru) , about your fault , you need to understand that you may have “Rin-dosh” – caused by Ketu, Mercury, and Jupiter.
When Venus and Jupiter aren’t good then they cause problems in getting children and home life. Or it causes your child to not listen to you, or perhaps there’s no emotional connect with the child, or your child goes through a lot of problems, or causes the child to not get a good spouse. If you’re having problems in regards to your child, then both the parents need to do these remedies together.
Remedies ,To Make Jupiter Strong:—
- Get up in the morning
- take some water in a copper / earthen vessel
- Offer water and haldi to the Sun first
- Then fill the vessel with water and black till again, face the South direction and offer it to you ancestors
- Ask your ancestors for forgiveness of your mistakes and bad habits; on this note, people who like other’s work, give credit for even their work to others, ask for forgiveness even for a small mistake, their Jupiter improves and makes them good leaders.
- Take part in caring of a temple/place of worship – but this should be without any gains (not being a member of any committee or another group and no publicity).
- On Ekadashi, plant Peepal and Banana trees and donate rice.
- On the day of Triyodashi – ask forgiveness from your ancestors and lie in the feet of Maa Durga/Shivji and pray.Plant Peepal , Bel or Banyan / Bargad Trees.
- Either on the day of ekadashi or amavasya – make a resolution to stop eating meat. It’s not good to eat meat and should be stopped immediately.
- On amavasya, also pay respects and offer food to some saadhu/sant/.
- Do a fast (vrat) for a religious ceremony (anushthaan), which benefits poor children.
- Do a fast to care for living beings. Teach your kids not to hurt a living being – if the child does it, tell them to say sorry to the being and to never do it again.
- People who have a lot of problems in marriage or getting married: on “Duadashi”, they need to remember their ancestors and offer sweet chappatis and besan sweets. This also helps in Mangal-dosh.
- If you do any prayer in a group/ or as a whole family out loud, then you get bigger benefits.
- On ‘pitra visarjan amavasya’ day, do the following remedies:
- make your place pure
- invite your Gods
- invite your ancestors
- All members of the family should get together around the “hawan kund” fire and then do Pitra Gayatri paath. Make sure everyone has a coconut and 1 rupee (some money).
- The head of the family should have a turmeric root bead in his right hand with 108 beads in it. This will be used to count the no. of mantras.Keep this male for future pujas .
- The rest of the family members should have a turmeric bead in their left hand. The right hand will be used to offer “ahuti” to the fire. The ahuti should have sesame seeds and flowers; you should have “samvidha” of mango tree wood or palaash wood.
- Then everyone needs to loudly say at least 5×108 mantra: “Om Graam Greem Grom Sah Guruvay Namaha Savaaha(offer ahuti in fire when saying this)”.
- Donate the money and turmeric to a temple and offer coconut in to flowing water.
- Feed some “kusht rogi”/lepers.
- This needs to be done in cooperation by all the family members – someone does one thing, another does another thing.
- Children should also take part in such prayers.
- Take some food out for: a dog, a cow, and a crow ants , fire / agni .
- Do light an evening diya on this day.
- Call saints, intelligent people, Guru if possible , or kind hearted people to your home and offer your respects. Or you can listen to their talks or read their work.
- Plant a Peepal and Banana tree, but the banana tree should not be planted in your home.
- Create a happy positive environment in your home.
- The homes in which women and the elderly are respected Don’t generally have pitra dosh.
- Homes in which the kids are having a hard time getting married, hormonal problems ,then the children of these homes should wear a root of the tree (nag rang) in an orange thread in the morning or after the prayers for Guru Graha are done.
- The “Anjaan run”/debt of unknown people – can be “repaid”/done on this day too.
- Such dosh causes problems from the 47th year of the person’s life, wealth and repute will become limited,there will be different accusations imposed, some woman may accuse you of being an immoral person, there can be severe accusations which can also be cause for you to go through some punishment (jail time).
- Such person’s dog suddenly goes away somewhere/gets lost. The nails start to deteriorate and friends turn into enemies. Memory starts weakening and one goes through a lot of problems due to bad decisions.Hair loss and Whitening before age .
- Such people need to offer water to the ancestors and ask for forgiveness from them.Respect women at home .
- They should do Ekadashi shraad. On that day, help an unknown person – donate rice/some other kind of wheat to unknown people.
- On Amavasya, take one coconut from each family member and offer in river; make sure you have good relations with your in-laws always .
Along with the above, if you have problems in regards to your child, then:
- Feed 100 cows at least once a year.
- Take the responsiblity of a child/ long distance adoption is a good and practical option you may want to consider.
- Help the person whom you may have cheated – knowingly or through some compulsion.
- Guru, whom you may have left or if he has left you , then establish the relations , very important , or Jupiter gives very adverse effects . Be in sanidhya of Guru Gaye Mandir always , but with True Heart , your problems vanish Or if you have stopped giving food to cow that you used to before, then restart this. Give anonymous donation for a broken temple/place of worship.
People who aren’t able to conceive due to pitra dosh, provided both the man and woman are physically fine, then they may need to do the following remedies:
– you will not have kids easily if you had killed somebody in the past life; you need to repent .
– if you’ve tortured people/animals ladies due to strength in the past life, then too you don’t get kids or if you do, then you will face a lot of problems from them.
– if you’ve tortured a pregnat woman in this or past life, then it’s very hard to get the love of your child
– if due to your bad behavior, you’ve misbehaved/or caused a lot of problems to a saint/guru, then you will immediately start having problems with the child and work .
– if you’ve destroyed trees (example, via some development work) , but have not planted any new trees, then too begetting a child will be problematic. You should plant 5 for every 1 that you’ve destroyed.
MORE DETAILS ON PITRA DOSH WILL BE SENT IN FUTURE , AS MANY FAMILIES ARE SUFFERING DUE TO THIS MAHA DOSH , AND WE HAVE GIVEN PURE VEDIC WAY TO SOLVE IT .
ALL REMEDIES , PUJAS , PRAYERS , HELP ONLY WHEN ONE IS TRUE TO HIM / HERSELF , FAITHFUL , POSITIVE ABOUT TEACHER / GURU / ANY POSITIVE PERSON ,DOES NOT BACK BITE , TALKS SOFTLY , NO LIES , NEVER HURTS FEELING OF CHILDREN , WOMEN , PARENTS , WIFE , SISTER , TAKES CARE OF HOME FAMILY FIRST AND THEN ANY OUTSIDERS , OR THESE PUJAS , REMEDIES BACK FIRE AND CREATE UNWANTED MORE TROUBLES FOR YOU , IN THIS LEFT OVER BIRTH AND MANY BIRTHS TO COME IN MORE SEVERE WAYS .